Why am i alone, please help me find a man !?

i fairly attractive great personality good attitude, i managed a nightclub for years and i had to be tough when running it as friends etc... all expected free drink and other perks that i couldn't give them so i had to be harsh but fair, but now i've left the nite club people still see me in that light. funny thing is once people get to know THE REAL ME there astounded by how sound and funny i am please help i would love to meet a nice guy and settle down